Workable Ideas To Making Sex Hotter
A good relationship is a working mix of many types of mini-relationships in one package. It usually includes romance, another part is friendship and some parts would be sharing a mutually beneficial sharing of emotions. For other people, it’s also about economic arrangements or co-parenting. Others mix into their relationship a common passion for interests such as when couples are both into car racing or working for many months in an isolated tribal community. Though varied and highly colorful, each relationship faces a common challenge to making it work. Apart from essentials such as loyalty and communication, there is the factor of sex.
Many couples may have everything going with the smaller parts of their relationship well meshed. They’re great friends or have a standout working relationship. Some are just looking blessed and perfect with having shared responsibilities such as one home, kids or even a serious commitment like marriage. Still, the challenge is there: how to make sex an exciting, intimate activity that brings them closer through time.
For sure, you’re reading this because you have the same concerns. Don’t worry, there’s nothing seriously wrong in your relationship. Maybe you just need to spice up the intimate moments to renew your passion for each other. Here are five tips for heating things up between you and your partner:
1. Tell your partner how important sex is to you. The brain is our biggest sex organ, as what many renowned psychologists say. So use it to convey the message of how much sex plays an essential role in your relationship. Go beyond the physical satiation you get from having sex, but instead, express how it makes you feel. Also point out the things you want to do with your partner during sex which you think makes them feel good as well. Then repeat that you want to do that because you love seeing them aroused, satisfied and excited about the act. Talking about sex will bring both of you closer to each other, as well as clarify underlying issues of why you both should dedicate time to having sex.
2. Ask your partner what they want. Maybe after a few years, the activity becomes just that – another activity. Well, ask your partner what you can do to make it an exciting and beneficial activity. Let your partner express their concerns about having sex. Most of the time, the reasons would be fear of getting pregnant, stress or insecurities. But if they don’t have these problems, then the bland sex could be because it has become a routine. You’d be surprised, however, once your partner shares his/her ideas on how to make sex exciting.
3. Talk about what turns you on – and your partner as well. It is time to get more specific, ask your partner if there are specific things everyday that you could be doing so that you could get things going in the sex department. It could be as simple as showing more interest in sex, whispering nasty sex talks or relaxing in the tub together. It could also be about having a couple of drinks, watching a sexy movie or simply grabbing your partner’s private parts in unguarded moments. Once you know it, you’ll have to have a variety of ways and methods to turning the sex music on!
4. Get real kinky or naughty every once in a while. Don’t be restricted when it comes to sex. Who says the bedroom is the place to get intimate? It’s for sleeping, dummy! So don’t limit your acts in the bored bed – do it in the kitchen, in the car or in the yard when it’s dark. Get naughty in the hallway leading to your apartment or in the basement! You could also try dressing up or going naked while cooking or baking. The thing here is to have something out of the conventional. For sure, it will excite you both!
With these suggestions, your partner will thank you for heating up things in the relationship. For sure, it will keep you even more bonded and loved!